I'm getting myself so wound up recently, observing people and their relationships or their life choices, it's actually knocking me a bit sick if i'm completely honest. I can honestly say I don't know a single couple at the moment that are 100% monogamous, and it's such a sad thought. People just have this constant need for other peoples attention, so they flirt with others and kiss/touch/sleep with other people behind their partners back, and it's horrifying. It's genuinely really put me off going near anyone at all. Yes, I understand not everyone's like that and it's not fair to say it's just guys or girls, but obviously I experience it with guys because i'm sexually attracted to guys, so I'm not going to get fed up with girls for it, am i? Anyway, back to my point, I don't even want to bother with anyone because it's all on the same pattern. Every guy is an opportunist and i'm 90% sure that whatever they say to me, they've said or are saying to three other girls. I'm increasingly beginning to believe i'm just strange in the sense that it takes a lot for me to like someone, and when I do I only wish to spend time with/kiss/talk to them in that way, no one else. Everyone else seems to be going through people like they're going out of fashion, and I'm stumped on what to make of it at all. I watched a girl in a club go from one guy to another for about an hour the other week, and she was eating the face of all of them in plain view. Now, either they all laughed it off and gave her a reputation or she successfully caused tension between people, because she can't keep her tongue in her own mouth. Sorry, that was a mini rant.
It really pisses me off when girls use specific guys to flirt with to make themselves look like they get attention, it honestly pisses me off. All the bitchy little tactics that seem to be in a 'how to make his life hell' catalogue somewhere, accessible for all female kind, come well out of the woodwork and show themselves. I hate all of them, wanting and flirting with your ex because he has a new love interest, being all over a guy friend just because someone you had a fling is in view, flirting HORRENDOUSLY with someone because you don't like the person they're interested in, etc. They are all pathetic and ridiculous and just plain horrible. Why is it intrinsic for people to be dickheads? Everyone does it, I don't do it in that sense though. I'm one of those who pretends they don't care, and just gets over it on my own. I'm not a fan of obstructing true love (ha!) or anything like that, end of the day opportunity does not knock twice, you tried it, it didn't work out, move on. Don't then spend your time pretending you want to be in the other room of a club, just to attempt to make someone who, quite frankly probably doesn't give a fuck and just thinks you're stupid, jealous for all of five minutes.
And don't get me started on guys...
You meet a guy, he seems ace, he's charming, attractive and single.. score. No, not at all, not in this day and age! Chances are he has a reputation, sleeps with A LOT of people or is seeing someone and keeping it quiet so they can pursue more sexual encounters. I've seen it all too much before and it's insulting. I hate it when guys who have girlfriends and claim to love them start flirting with me, its disrespectful. It's even more hilarious when they get touchy because you remind them they have a girlfriend and you don't flirt back, that's a classic move. It's not a compliment if a guy with a girlfriend flirts with you, in fact i'd take it more as an insult because they're viewing you as something to do behind their girlfriends back. You're never going to mean anything to them, you're never going to become their girlfriend and on the off chance you do, he'll be doing it behind your back instead. If you want to sleep with many people or have the freedom to then why not just be 100% single? I don't get it. Is it fun to hurt people and cheat and lie? If so, i'm massively missing out. Now i'm not saying all guys are like this, but it seems the ones i'm attracted to are very similar to this. Suddenly interested again because they have a girlfriend and don't want to lose you as a flirt or whatever. I also don't like it when people tell me to give a guy a chance, i'm sorry no, i'm not attracted to him, simple. I wouldn't expect someone to pursue me if they didn't find me attractive, so kindly don't force that on me thanks. Maybe, i just have shit taste, but it's my taste all the same and I'm not going to pretend to like some guy just because he's a 'nice guy'. I don't care for it, confidence is sexy, so is a bit of charm and a bit of tact, and yes this may all point to a player or whatever, but shit happens. I may not be happy about it, but I enjoy certain attributes. I wouldn't say i'm ridiculously picky, I'm just not into everyone.
Also, when THE FUCK did it become appropriate to ask a girl who you barely know how they have their pubic hair?! Or to say things such as 'I bet you're really good in bed'. Excuse me, NO. Why don't you try showing me some respect? Flirting is one thing, but that's just crude, and it says to me you don't think much of me as a person. Basically, do not objectify me. I am not a piece of meat for you to utilise to your best ability, I am a PERSON. I have favourite colours, favourite films, a sense of humour and preferences of my own, therefore do NOT say such things like 'i'd love to see you naked' or 'i'm really good with my tongue'. I do not care. All you say to me is you're just a sex obsessed male. And the funny thing is, some of these 'nice guys' have said such crude things to me... bit of a contrast, anyone?
Maybe I am strange, maybe my taste is bad or weird, but you can't really call me for wanting a bit of respect and someone to treat me like a person who actually matters, can you? Sex is great, we all love it, it's a brilliant pass time but I won't just jump into bed with any old casanova who thinks he can pull the moves on any girl he chooses, as sex is also about being close to one another and being honest and experimental, exploring your body with someone elses, and no i'm not saying it's 'making love' at all. Wild sex, rough sex, passionate sex, intimate sex... they're all good but I don't believe you can get the full benefit if you go from one partner to the next throwing yourself at them (thats you ladies) or trying DESPERATELY to get into their knickers (and yes guys, i mean desperate).
So, Anyone up for a fuck?
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